Yes it's been way too long between posts but I always feel that if I am gonna do a post then I gotta get in all I can in one shot. It's busy with youth ministry stuff as well as preparing for our third child on the way. Hard to believe that our first Caitlin was born over 6 years ago. But finding out about her came at at a very unique time. So the other day I was thinking of that story that really impacted my life and hopefully you can take away from it.
In 1994 I had the opportunity to work for a Christian Bookstore called The Shepherd's Shoppe. For about 9 years in total I worked as the Music Manager and had some long but very blessed memories. Some of the funny ones will have their time to shine as a part of these stories I share. But I wanted to tell you about a very memorable week while I was with the store. Every summer there would be a trade show called CBA where a lot of the Christian retailers would gather to look at upcoming new products as well as place their pre-orders. It was also where all of the major companies had some of their authors and music artists there to promote their respective deals. I had been before about 3 years ago and that was one of the best trips ever. At this particular show in July 2007 I had the opportunity to meet several different personalities such as Former Colts coach Tony Dungy, Steven Curtis Chapman, Karen Kingsbury, Casting Crowns, and some others. I was able to get some pictures with them as well as several autographs on CDs and some books. It was another great experience thanks to The Shepherd's Shoppe.
Well I was heading out to leave that Tuesday afternoon. I was anxious to get home and show Crystal all the music, books and pics I had. I was way jacked and pulled into the driveway. As I was unpacking I soon discovered that I had left a very important bag behind. In this bag was several of the autographed merchandise I had gotten as well as our recently purchased new digital camera. Yep all those pics with the peeps was sitting back in Atlanta. Ok to be honest I lost it. Went nuts and absolutely was so angry with myself. Well imagine if you would my lovely wife coming outside to greet me after being gone only to see me highly ticked. She hugged me and I hugged her back very half hearted. She asked what was wrong as I began to vent to her about my discovery in the driveway. She said well calm down just call Jack, who was my boss and still in Atlanta, and see if he can check the parking garage. I knew I had brought everything out to the car. So I called him and asked if he could check when they got back to the hotel to see if it was reported. I went inside and sat on the couch with so much anger I couldn't stand it. I could tell Crystal was bearing my fury and was really not wanting to hear alot of complaining since I just got home. I was so upset thinking I lost the autographed stuff and more importantly a brand new digital camera which she loved so much. She told me we can get another camera but I knew she had to be upset.
Well after about 10 minutes of having tears of anger and frustration with some venting involved, Crystal said, "Well can I give you something?" I was like sure. She then brought in a gift box and sat it in my life. I was thinking oh wow I have been a total dud and she is giving me something. I then opened the box and unwrapped what was one of the greatest gifts I have ever received. I pulled out a baby bib that read "I Luv My Daddy". I instantly had gone from tears of anger to tears of great joy and surprise. I hugged Crystal as we both cried and were so happy. In one moment I had been taught a sincere and valuable lesson that would forever be etched on my heart. For all of the supposed loss I had thought I suffered, I gained something so precious. The gift of Fatherhood. The gift of a child. The gift of life. A life that would share my blood and that I would be responsible for. I would love her so much and go out of my way to protect her and train her in the way she should go. What a miracle and blessing that God so graciously allowed me to have. It was a moment that would stay fresh in my heart for a very long time. So the things sometimes we treasure or lust for or even put on a pedestal, are but momentary.
Matthew 6:19-21
Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
Never take for granted the treasures you have been blessed with. More importantly truly wrap your arms around the treasure of Jesus if He lives in your heart. I love my family and would never put anything materialistic before them again. When I see those little arms reach up for me, I instantly compare it to the way we should approach God in our lives. He loves us so much and he does care for you and for me.
Oh and in case you are wondering I got called soon after the news was discovered about my newly crowned title of Daddy. My boss was able to get my bag which someone had given to the security guard in the parking garage. It was as if I was being stretched out by the Lord to see if I really was ready for my Daddy news. So yet again don't sweat the things of the earth when God is in control. And always be mindful of the things that really matter. God Bless
Wednesday, June 25, 2014
Tuesday, May 13, 2014
How To Avoid A Fork In The Road
Been too long since last my post and I will not try and catch you up on all that has happened but rather just get to something that is on my heart. Especially since graduation is approaching for many of my youth I am praying the following is secured in a foundation that will not be shaken as they start a new chapter. So let me get right into it.
Question:
"What is Christian discipleship?"
Answer: By
definition, a disciple is a follower, one who accepts and assists in spreading
the doctrines of another. A Christian disciple is a person who accepts and
assists in the spreading of the good news of Jesus Christ. Christian
discipleship is the process by which disciples grow in the Lord Jesus Christ
and are equipped by the Holy Spirit, who resides in our hearts, to overcome the
pressures and trials of this present life and become more and more Christ like.
This process requires believers to respond to the Holy Spirit’s prompting to
examine their thoughts, words and actions and compare them with the Word of
God. This requires that we be in the Word daily—studying it, praying over it,
and obeying it. In addition, we should always be ready to give testimony of the
reason for the hope that is within us (1 Peter 3:15) and to disciple others to
walk in His way. According to Scripture, being a Christian disciple involves
personal growth characterized by the following:
1. Putting
Jesus first in all things (Mark 8:34-36).
V34 Then he
called the crowd to him along with his disciples and said: “Whoever wants to be
my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. 35 For
whoever wants to save their life[b] will lose it, but whoever loses their life
for me and for the gospel will save it. 36 What good is it for someone to gain
the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?
The disciple
of Christ needs to be set apart from the world. Our focus should be on our Lord
and pleasing Him in every area of our lives. We must put off self-centeredness
and put on Christ-centeredness.
2. Following
Jesus' teachings (John 8:31-32).
V31 To the
Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are
really my disciples. V32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set
you free.”
We must be
obedient children and doers of the Word. Obedience is the supreme test of faith
in God (1 Samuel 28:18), and Jesus is the perfect example of obedience as He
lived a life on earth of complete obedience to the Father even to the point of
death (Philippians 3:6-8).
7 But
whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. 8 What is
more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing
Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things.
3.
Fruitfulness (John 15:5-8).
V6 Anyone who does not remain in me is thrown away like a
useless branch and withers. Such branches are gathered into a pile to be
burned. 7 But if you remain in me and my words remain in you, you may ask for
anything you want, and it will be granted! 8 When you produce much fruit, you
are my true disciples. This brings great glory to my Father.
Our job is
not producing fruit. Our job is to abide in Christ, and if we do, the Holy
Spirit will produce the fruit, and this fruit is the result of our obedience.
As we become more obedient to the Lord and learn to walk in His ways, our lives
will change. The biggest change will take place in our hearts, and the overflow
of this will be new conduct (thoughts, words and actions) representative of
that change. The change we seek is done from the inside out, through the power
of the Holy Spirit. It isn’t something we can conjure up on our own.
4. Love for
other disciples (John 13:34-35).
We are told
that love of other believers is the evidence of our being a member of God's
family (1 John 3:10). Love is defined and elaborated on in 1 Corinthians
13:1-13. These verses show us that love is not an emotion; it is action. We
must be doing something and involved in the process. Furthermore, we are told
to think more highly of others than of ourselves and to look out for their
interests (Philippians 2:3-4). The next verse in Philippians (verse 5) really
sums up what we are to do when it comes to everything in life: "our
attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus." What a perfect
example He is to us for everything we are to do in our Christian walk.
5.
Evangelism - Making disciples of others (Matthew 28:18-20).
V18 Then
Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been
given to me. 19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them
in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 and
teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you
always, to the very end of the age.”
Wednesday, April 16, 2014
Papa George
If there was such a label as step grandfather, then I guess that would be the label I have to give to Papa George. He was the only grandfather I ever knew growing up. His name was George Bradham, but we called him Papa George. He was married to my Mom's mother, Rhetta, and they lived in Sumter, SC.
We took many trips to Sumter to visit them during holidays, family reunions in other parts of the lower state, and just in general. He loved my brother Tim and I so much and would often times take us to do various things including some fishing as well as some trips to Dunkin Donuts. He always invested time with us when we were there in Sumter as well as when He would visit in Abbeville.
I remember he was also responsible for stirring the love for pro wrestling between us and him during the 80s. Back then on Saturday evenings, World Championship Wrestling (which used to be Georgia Championship Wrestling) was THE thing to watch. It would come on from 6:05 until 8:05. Anytime we were together we would watch it and of course our favorite was Ric Flair. As a matter of fact the two people he liked onTV the most were Ric Flair and Fonzy from Happy Days. We all loved watching wrestling together and those were some good times.
I also remember a very special time in my life when Papa George would stamp his imprint on my young life. In 1986, I had accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior during VBS at my home church Southside Baptist in Abbeville. I remember my Mama calling Mama Rhetta and Papa George to let me tell them over the phone. They were very excited and proud of me.
A few weeks later we went down to Sumter for a visit. During that visit Papa George told me he was going to take me to Dunkin Donuts and it was just going to be me and him. I remember when we got there, he was telling the waitress there about the fact that I had been saved and he was just glowing. He would then go on to tell a few others around the table we were at. By that time he started talking to me and just telling me how proud he was of the decision I made. He asked me a few questions and then began to tell me that he and Mama Rhetta had been praying for me and the time that would come for me to make this decision. I saw him glow so much and that was one trip to the donut shop I would never forget because his love for me just overflowed.
In 1988 he had developed lung cancer and then began to really suffer in 1989. I remember one of the last times we saw him feeling somewhat ok that he had lost alot of weight and really did not look good but he was in good spirits. Well one day during my Literature class in 7th grade, I was called to the front. Mama had called and said that he was not good and they were calling the family in. So we immediately went down to Sumter and had a chance to spend some final moments with Papa George. He looked so frail and was really struggling to stay alive. It was very emotional and also difficult to witness. Then later that night I was in his room when he finally passed away. I couldn't bear to see him lifeless so I ran out of the house crying and just really upset. My Dad came and consoled me and we began the mourning process. I had just lost my Papa George and the pain was very tough to handle.
I remember being at the funeral and just watching how tough it was for Mama Rhetta to say goodbye. It was a big loss in my family's life, especially Tim and myself. He was the only grandpa we knew and had. And even with all the good memories it was just difficult to handle. I did see and hear during that time from all the many people he did impact. I understood how bold a witness of his faith that he was. It really made that time in the donut shop just stand out more. And people would tell us that he would always brag on his "boys" and all we had accomplished. He didn't get to see Tim get married later that year but I know that he loved Tim's wife Terri so much and it was a tough loss for her as well. It definitely took some time to get over his loss in my family.
So I know one day I will see my two blood grandfathers and yes I do have many stories that were shared to me about them. But I will always cherish the Grandpa I had on this earth in Papa George. He was one of a kind and I also look forward to seeing him one day again. I know he would be proud of what God has done in my life and where He has taken me.
Wednesday, April 2, 2014
Matter Of Service.
Hope everyone has had a great start to April. That means hopefully not sneezing too much and enjoying the trees and flowers beginning the blooming process. For me well it has been a busy last few weeks but some great stuff to be a part of. Looking forward to what's ahead.
Today I just felt like I needed to share a little bit of how awesome it is to serve Christ as youth minister but first as a disciple of His. I think that it's easy to get burned out from time to time and you definitely have to stay fueled by His word and by your walk with Him. As much as I pour out sometimes I forget to get refilled so I'm thankful that the Holy Spirit is there to fill me when needed. If you read this and say well so far you lost me cause I don't do ministry, let me just say that as you look at life in general we all get burned out which is why vacation time is so amazing and well deserved. But as someone who is called to serve Christ I take full responsibility for that as the choice I made to answer His call.
Throughout my life especially since being in a paid ministry position I have seen many who have abused the great honor of being in ministry positions by poor choices, self serving motives, and overall discord created by egotistical pride. To be blunt. I have seen many drop the ball. The great thing is that God has grace and mercy along with forgiveness to restore those back to a place of service. Many feel like they have to have a position in order to serve when actually they can serve where they are planted with great success and growth. Too many times people don't want to stay planted and the first signs of hardship they pick up their tent and go elsewhere usually putting the blame on others or particular situations. And when they do this as in a consistent repetition they seem to be wandering in a self made desert not realizing that God is speaking to them all the while to stop, be silent, and listen. As Christians and true disciples we are called to follow Christ and serve others. Whether you get paid or not doesn't undersell the responsibility. Sometimes being a leader is being a better follower. Sometimes it doesn't have to be about us. It needs to be about Him. We are in a culture of denial and so many teens that I work with as well as adults I see fail to accept the responsibility and look to justify the means of excuses and self created mistakes. Instead of trying so hard to justify why you can't or won't do anymore what if we put that same energy towards the will to do better. In other words just because you get tired and start to sweat doesn't mean you abandon the race. As Rick Warren said the mark of spiritual maturity occurs when a believer "takes off the bib and puts on an apron." Immature children wear bibs and expect others to meet their needs. Those who don aprons have learned the joy of serving others. Which attire are you wearing?
Let's look at what the apostle Paul said about true service for Christ. In Romans 12: 3-16 it says this,
This sums up everything really specific and direct to where we need to be when we think about what it means to serve God. We should remain humble in our words and actions, understand we can serve the whole body of Christ as it is made of many parts, we have different gifts that should be used not shelved, and lift others up instead of tearing down those who we have a falling out with.
Here's the deal. We all should be doing something for the Lord. If that involves serving in missions, at school, in the hospital, in advertising, in entertainment, etc. We should serve and serve gladly. And if you are wanting to serve yet seem to think your reward is simply a paycheck then think about how satisfying it could be to serve God in a local church with a church body and be content with the fact that you are answering a call. Maybe the call you seek is not ready for this season. We shouldn't dismiss what being called to serve is all about. I am blessed to be a youth minister and serve at a church that supports me with prayers and also financially. But if I wasn't a staff person, I would make sure I'm doing something to support my family while also being planted and awaiting the blooming process to grow at a church. I'm thankful for all that serve the Lord. Our voices and hearts should stay unified to make Him known to this world.
Today I just felt like I needed to share a little bit of how awesome it is to serve Christ as youth minister but first as a disciple of His. I think that it's easy to get burned out from time to time and you definitely have to stay fueled by His word and by your walk with Him. As much as I pour out sometimes I forget to get refilled so I'm thankful that the Holy Spirit is there to fill me when needed. If you read this and say well so far you lost me cause I don't do ministry, let me just say that as you look at life in general we all get burned out which is why vacation time is so amazing and well deserved. But as someone who is called to serve Christ I take full responsibility for that as the choice I made to answer His call.
Throughout my life especially since being in a paid ministry position I have seen many who have abused the great honor of being in ministry positions by poor choices, self serving motives, and overall discord created by egotistical pride. To be blunt. I have seen many drop the ball. The great thing is that God has grace and mercy along with forgiveness to restore those back to a place of service. Many feel like they have to have a position in order to serve when actually they can serve where they are planted with great success and growth. Too many times people don't want to stay planted and the first signs of hardship they pick up their tent and go elsewhere usually putting the blame on others or particular situations. And when they do this as in a consistent repetition they seem to be wandering in a self made desert not realizing that God is speaking to them all the while to stop, be silent, and listen. As Christians and true disciples we are called to follow Christ and serve others. Whether you get paid or not doesn't undersell the responsibility. Sometimes being a leader is being a better follower. Sometimes it doesn't have to be about us. It needs to be about Him. We are in a culture of denial and so many teens that I work with as well as adults I see fail to accept the responsibility and look to justify the means of excuses and self created mistakes. Instead of trying so hard to justify why you can't or won't do anymore what if we put that same energy towards the will to do better. In other words just because you get tired and start to sweat doesn't mean you abandon the race. As Rick Warren said the mark of spiritual maturity occurs when a believer "takes off the bib and puts on an apron." Immature children wear bibs and expect others to meet their needs. Those who don aprons have learned the joy of serving others. Which attire are you wearing?
Let's look at what the apostle Paul said about true service for Christ. In Romans 12: 3-16 it says this,
"3 For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you. 4 For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, 5 so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. 6 We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your[a] faith; 7 if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; 8 if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead,[b] do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.
9 Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. 10 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. 11 Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. 13 Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.
14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position.[c]Do not be conceited."
Here's the deal. We all should be doing something for the Lord. If that involves serving in missions, at school, in the hospital, in advertising, in entertainment, etc. We should serve and serve gladly. And if you are wanting to serve yet seem to think your reward is simply a paycheck then think about how satisfying it could be to serve God in a local church with a church body and be content with the fact that you are answering a call. Maybe the call you seek is not ready for this season. We shouldn't dismiss what being called to serve is all about. I am blessed to be a youth minister and serve at a church that supports me with prayers and also financially. But if I wasn't a staff person, I would make sure I'm doing something to support my family while also being planted and awaiting the blooming process to grow at a church. I'm thankful for all that serve the Lord. Our voices and hearts should stay unified to make Him known to this world.
Tuesday, March 25, 2014
Talking about Recess
As a kid growing up in Abbeville, SC playing outside was the ultimate release. Especially when you think about playing on a playground and that legendary time of recess at school. If you're like me some of the greatest experiences in elementary school were during the recess times. I remember going to the old Langley-Milliken Elementray School from Kindergarten until 3rd Grade. Their were two different playgrounds which had some significant differences and they were on opposite sides of the school. Plus there was an advantage for Kindergarten-2nd grade because those classes were held in the portables outside that surrounded the school. So when the three recess times were held, brother we hit the doors hard.
That easy access made it like green flag racing at Bristol as you tried to get to something quickly. You see the swings were like big time priority and if you could get to them first buddy then you were the stuff. The big playground held the big swing sets and part of the coolness was when you were done swinging you could take off out of the swings with some monster jumps. It was like you were flying. Occasionally you could time it out and actually use someone as a safety cushion as you tackled them from high above. We would have long distance challenges and man it was some good stuff.
And then there was the sliding boards that looked like they came off the side of a mountain. There was a big daddy slide and a junior slide. Of course you slide down both but if you got your sneakers slick enough with dirt you could ski down those bad boys which put you into legend status. I also remember we would run up the boards only to come back down. Of course we would have a race to see who could get to the top before the other would slide down. So you would have a dog pile coming down the board. And when it was hot man you would squeak down that thing with shorts and leave most of your legs behind. It was brutal.
Of course you had the monkey bars and the old Jungle Gym. So the monkey bars were not much unless you got up top and walked across the bars. Then you had to avoid falling and that was really funny when people would miss a step and find the open space between the bars. Lots of agony. The Jungle Gym at Langley-Milliken was like a small building that ran almost a story and a half. You could climb up through the cubes and then there were like 3 cubes up top where you could just chill out. Great view of all the swing jumpers as they would fly out of the swings. And plus it was concrete underneath you so if you slipped and fell it would be known to those around it.
Remember the See-Saws. I heard a guy talk about how that developed a serious trust factor between you and someone else. Especially if you saw a pretty girl and wanted to go talk to her. Man that other end would hit the ground fast and tear up someone's posterior. But they were like the little honorable mention things that you would sit on if you just wanted to talk to people.
We use to have pick em up bust em football games that were epic. I mean it was rugby without limits and nothing would be cooler than answering a question in class with a busted lip or black eye. Of course now it would be considered rough housing. But it separated the men from the boys so to speak. You could earn some respect if you got dirty during those times.
Of course you would have those times at recess where guys and girls were messing with each other. Guys would go around and push the girls they liked and then the girls would chase them around the playground. You also could have some games of tag going that would wear you out. And then there were rain days which absolutely stunk. But if it was your day to do PE then you could take your frustration out during some games of Murder Ball. No not Dodgeball. We didn't have all that political correctness stuff in the 80's. It was Murder Ball and buddy we would light each other up. And the girls would bring it to. Loved it.
But as we transitioned to Westwood Elementary during my 4th grade year it was like the blackest year of my elementary experience. We went almost 75% of the year with NO PLAYGROUND. It was the pits. Great for football and tag games. When you got a girl to chase you shoot you could run for days. But I mean it would be boring on most days. So that was tough but it developed character in us and made us run harder to the swings in the 5th Grade.
I don't know if that great feeling is still there in recesses these days but it was something that definitely highlighted my days as a kid. We had three or four at times during a day and now if kids have one they are doing good. I think it's a sad problem across the board in a technically overrun society. Now someone would say it was not that big of a deal, but when you sit cooped up in class and are not having a good day you needed to release that energy. So for my personal development it kept me healthy and inspired me to not get into trouble because missing recess was the worst experience ever.
If you have any great memories from your recess experiences pass it along to me. I enjoy the feedback. Plus I know some of you Greenville Street Elemnetary alumni in SC could chime in. Enjoy some outdoor fun even if you're an adult.
Wednesday, March 19, 2014
Reflect The Light
“Be imitators of God” (Ephesians 5:1).
Those words are startling, upsetting, impossible. It is “the ultimate ideal.” “Be imitators of God.” There can be no higher standard than that. The apostle Paul boldly tells us if we are to be like God we must imitate Him.
How is it possible for us depraved sinners to possibly imitate the sovereign LORD of the universe?
Once we get over the initial shock we realize that as children we are to imitate our parents. We should behave like them assuming they are godly role models.
Since we were born into God's family as His legitimate children when we repented and placed our faith in Jesus Christ as our Savior, we therefore should be an imitation of God (John 1:12-13).
Let it be clearly stated that “imitating God” has nothing to do with trying to merit eternal life. It has to do with our sanctification. We are to grow in godliness. The supreme example of this idea of imitating God is in the life of Jesus Christ.
The apostle Paul used the word mimetic from which we get our English word to “mimic.” The idea is to copy closely, to repeat another person's speech, actions, behavior and mannerisms. Paul is saying get to know your heavenly Father so you can echo His speech and behave the way He behaves.
How do we “imitate” our Father? We know that the apostle is not telling us to try to imitate God's sovereignty. He alone is and ever will be self-existent and self-efficient. That is absolutely beyond our means. He alone is eternal, omnipotent, omnipresent, omniscient, etc. Those are non-communicable attributes of God. He alone is God.
We are “to be imitators of God, as beloved children” (Eph. 5:1). Not childish attitudes and behavior, but as His children.
Ephesians 5:2 explains how the believer is to imitate God. We are to “walk in love.”
Jesus sacrificed His life for us. As the Good Shepherd He gave His life for the sheep (John 10:11, 15). Jesus “gave Himself for our sins, that He might deliver us from this present evil world, according to the will of God, and our Father” (Galatians 1:4).
God took our sin seriously and He dealt with it fully in the atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ. On the basis of that death God chose to forgive you and me (1 John 4:10; Rom. 5:8; Gal. 2:20; John 15:13; 3:16).
Christ “gave Himself up” for you and me. He surrendered Himself to death by execution for our crimes against God. He died in our stead, i.e. in our place. That is how great His love is for us.
Christians can imitate God by loving others, even to the point of death if necessary (1 John 3:16).
“We are to walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma” (Ephesians 5:2).
“Walk in love” is a constant ordering your behavior within the sphere of love. The child of God is to order his behavior within the sphere of this divine, supernatural love produced in his heart by the Holy Spirit. After a while it becomes a good habit, and we be become more and more like our heavenly Father.
Let's be careful to note the context of the admonition. A couple of verses earlier he wrote, “Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption” (4:30). How do you grieve Him? The next verse says by bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, slander, and malice (v. 31). Let's put it away from us because it causes pain, grief, and distress to the Holy Spirit of God.
We can please Him by being “kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. Therefore, be imitators of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you . . .” (4:32-5:2).
How do you please Him, rather than causing Him grief? Act the way He acts; behave the way your Father in heaven behaves; “be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. Therefore, be imitators of God . . .”
How did our heavenly Father treat us? He dealt with us in kindness, compassion, forgiving. Praise God that He has not dealt with us with what we deserved. In grace He has chosen to love us and forgive us of every sin. The blood of Jesus Christ cleanses us of all our sins. That is love. That is how God treats us.
“Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children . . .”
Act like the Father. Love like the Father. Forgive like the Father. Be kind to one another like the Father. “Just as God in Christ has forgiven you.” “Walk in love, just as Christ also loved you, and gave Himself up for us."
Those words are startling, upsetting, impossible. It is “the ultimate ideal.” “Be imitators of God.” There can be no higher standard than that. The apostle Paul boldly tells us if we are to be like God we must imitate Him.
How is it possible for us depraved sinners to possibly imitate the sovereign LORD of the universe?
Once we get over the initial shock we realize that as children we are to imitate our parents. We should behave like them assuming they are godly role models.
Since we were born into God's family as His legitimate children when we repented and placed our faith in Jesus Christ as our Savior, we therefore should be an imitation of God (John 1:12-13).
Let it be clearly stated that “imitating God” has nothing to do with trying to merit eternal life. It has to do with our sanctification. We are to grow in godliness. The supreme example of this idea of imitating God is in the life of Jesus Christ.
The apostle Paul used the word mimetic from which we get our English word to “mimic.” The idea is to copy closely, to repeat another person's speech, actions, behavior and mannerisms. Paul is saying get to know your heavenly Father so you can echo His speech and behave the way He behaves.
How do we “imitate” our Father? We know that the apostle is not telling us to try to imitate God's sovereignty. He alone is and ever will be self-existent and self-efficient. That is absolutely beyond our means. He alone is eternal, omnipotent, omnipresent, omniscient, etc. Those are non-communicable attributes of God. He alone is God.
We are “to be imitators of God, as beloved children” (Eph. 5:1). Not childish attitudes and behavior, but as His children.
Ephesians 5:2 explains how the believer is to imitate God. We are to “walk in love.”
Jesus sacrificed His life for us. As the Good Shepherd He gave His life for the sheep (John 10:11, 15). Jesus “gave Himself for our sins, that He might deliver us from this present evil world, according to the will of God, and our Father” (Galatians 1:4).
God took our sin seriously and He dealt with it fully in the atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ. On the basis of that death God chose to forgive you and me (1 John 4:10; Rom. 5:8; Gal. 2:20; John 15:13; 3:16).
Christ “gave Himself up” for you and me. He surrendered Himself to death by execution for our crimes against God. He died in our stead, i.e. in our place. That is how great His love is for us.
Christians can imitate God by loving others, even to the point of death if necessary (1 John 3:16).
“We are to walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma” (Ephesians 5:2).
“Walk in love” is a constant ordering your behavior within the sphere of love. The child of God is to order his behavior within the sphere of this divine, supernatural love produced in his heart by the Holy Spirit. After a while it becomes a good habit, and we be become more and more like our heavenly Father.
Let's be careful to note the context of the admonition. A couple of verses earlier he wrote, “Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption” (4:30). How do you grieve Him? The next verse says by bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, slander, and malice (v. 31). Let's put it away from us because it causes pain, grief, and distress to the Holy Spirit of God.
We can please Him by being “kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. Therefore, be imitators of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you . . .” (4:32-5:2).
How do you please Him, rather than causing Him grief? Act the way He acts; behave the way your Father in heaven behaves; “be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. Therefore, be imitators of God . . .”
How did our heavenly Father treat us? He dealt with us in kindness, compassion, forgiving. Praise God that He has not dealt with us with what we deserved. In grace He has chosen to love us and forgive us of every sin. The blood of Jesus Christ cleanses us of all our sins. That is love. That is how God treats us.
“Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children . . .”
Act like the Father. Love like the Father. Forgive like the Father. Be kind to one another like the Father. “Just as God in Christ has forgiven you.” “Walk in love, just as Christ also loved you, and gave Himself up for us."
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
When DC Talk Ruled The World And My Walkman
I love music. And during these blogs I would love to share some great music stories starting with this one. The year was 1995. I had just recently started work at a local Christian bookstore in Greenwood, SC. I wanted to work in the music section since I had a great love all kinds of music especially Gospel music. I had been slowly introduced to Contemporary Christian music at the time via a local FM radio station WLFJ in Greenville, SC. At that time most of the music was still rather dated and not relative to the styles of music that were exploding on mainstream radio. You gotta remember too that this was before Itunes and even the infamous Napster initiation so there were no early outlets to get music until singles were released if they were available or the actual street date of release. So while working at the store we were getting the buzz of a new DC Talk album releasing in August. And this was a big deal. A very big deal.
First of all DC talk had released an album in 1992 called Free At Last which was a landmark album in itself featuring an infusion of hip hop to the Christian music scene with a underground mainstream push. To this day I know all the raps from member Toby Mac and can remember the infusion of Kevin Max and Michael Tait killing some vocals. It was a must have as a teenager who attended church and needed an alternative to the standard hymns and worship collection. They even made an appearance on the popular Arsenio Hall Show during his late night run. There was a documentary/concert video released as well that showed some of the reality and celebrations during that time of the group's success. So DC Talk having the momentum as a group with that album had many waiting the next chapter. Little did we know the chapter would have some different feel to it. That was briefly revealed at the end of the Free At Last movie with a preview of the next step.
The album was truly one of those that you had to listen to every song and there was literally nothing that you wanted to skip. That's hard to pull off. The songs are still relevant for today and it is on a regular shuffle mix that I have to listen to during the week. From struggles to grace to witness to celebration.
So on behalf of my generation of Christian music lovers as well as music fans in general I want to say thank you to Toby Mac, Kevin Max, and Michael Tait. Thank you for investing yourselves in a project that still speaks life and challenge to this guy and so many others. They may not read this but here's hoping it gets to their eyes. We don't know for sure if the guys will ever do a reunion tour or project but we do know that they created and left a musical masterpiece for us to share in.
Sincerely,
Jesus Freak For Life.
First of all DC talk had released an album in 1992 called Free At Last which was a landmark album in itself featuring an infusion of hip hop to the Christian music scene with a underground mainstream push. To this day I know all the raps from member Toby Mac and can remember the infusion of Kevin Max and Michael Tait killing some vocals. It was a must have as a teenager who attended church and needed an alternative to the standard hymns and worship collection. They even made an appearance on the popular Arsenio Hall Show during his late night run. There was a documentary/concert video released as well that showed some of the reality and celebrations during that time of the group's success. So DC Talk having the momentum as a group with that album had many waiting the next chapter. Little did we know the chapter would have some different feel to it. That was briefly revealed at the end of the Free At Last movie with a preview of the next step.
If you didn't know who Nirvana was in the early 90s when the Seattle based grunge sound hit you were under a rock somewhere. They were huge and they ushered a new darker and even harder sound at that time. Again most Christian music rock bands at that time were still stuck in the late 80s with the hair band stylings that gained a lot of rep. The last thing the CCM industry was expecting and the followers of DC Talk were expecting was a new direction of sound for the popular ground that may have been a roll of the dice. But obviously with the talent and artistic vibe they shared in their live shows especially something was gonna be magical. As I was working at the store we kept getting local college students in asking when is the new album coming from DC Talk. The first single off the album was the self titled track Jesus Freak. The name itself yelled of curiosity and some controversy. The song was amazing. It was different than anything CCM had seen at the time and for me it was like YES somebody has figured it out. The sounds of current day now had a Christian alternative ironically. Not to mention that before Fred Durst was a public figure there was rap infused into a rock song which later would be labeled rapcore. Credit Toby Mac for pushing that envelope. The buzz was at a fever pitch and I told my manager you better have plenty ordered cause this thing is gonna be big. Also at this time we still had cassettes as CDs had established themselves as the main purchase. So you were talking a lot of units combined to get in. And in November of 95 the album dropped to a crazy response of purchases. It flew off the shelf. We sold out in less than a week after getting an initial order of 60 copies which was tapes and CDs combined. We would go on to sell over a thousand copies by the start of 1996 which was not the norm for regular releases. It debuted at number 16 on the Billboard 200 selling over 85,000 copies in the first week. That was the highest debut at that time for any Christian music album. It also went gold selling over 500,000 units in the first month. Again not the normal standard. It was a phenomenon. Truly a historic and cultural revolution. DC Talk would gain mainstream access to radio as well as the Virgin record label which expanded the buzz. The success and introduction of the Jesus Freak album would open the door for Christian music to take a massive makeover into all genres of music to counter culture the world's message. His message would now have the platform to reach so many new believers thanks to new groups like Jars Of Clay, Audio Adrenaline, Big Tent Revival, Third Day, and others.
The album was truly one of those that you had to listen to every song and there was literally nothing that you wanted to skip. That's hard to pull off. The songs are still relevant for today and it is on a regular shuffle mix that I have to listen to during the week. From struggles to grace to witness to celebration.
So on behalf of my generation of Christian music lovers as well as music fans in general I want to say thank you to Toby Mac, Kevin Max, and Michael Tait. Thank you for investing yourselves in a project that still speaks life and challenge to this guy and so many others. They may not read this but here's hoping it gets to their eyes. We don't know for sure if the guys will ever do a reunion tour or project but we do know that they created and left a musical masterpiece for us to share in.
Sincerely,
Jesus Freak For Life.
Tuesday, March 4, 2014
Jesus And Popcorn
This past weekend saw the release of the Son Of God movie to various theaters around the country. I took my youth group to see it this past Sunday during our fellowship time. I was thankful of the various conversations that came afterwards which was why I wanted to take them. Famous TV producer Mark Burnett (Survivor) and his wife, actress Roma Downey (Touched By An Angel) bring to the big screen their adaptation of certain events displayed in the life of Jesus. They produced a TV mini series, The Bible, for the History Channel last year to rave reviews and big ratings as it covered many significant stories from the Bible. While much of the footage for the movie aired on TV there were some additional scenes added as well as some scenes removed. The mini series had an amazing soundtrack and a true big movie scope to it unlike anything before. It also showed a grit to it that made you feel like you were right in the stories as they happened. This movie branched out of the mini series to go along with the Easter season and has seen a great response at the box office. "Son of God opened in second place with an estimated $26.5 million, exceeding more than the $15-$20 million many claimed it would have. Even the distributor 20th Century Fox predicted $12-$15 million. There will always be a target audience to reach when doing these movies but most experts claim that it will always be a roll of the dice.
Now let me be very clear that if you are going to this movie to see all of the context as recorded as it happened word for word via the Holy Bible I regret to inform you that you will not see a lot of what was recorded. The movie itself runs at 150 minutes and is more or less a capsule summary of events in Jesus life. And you are not getting all of the Gospels in chronological order either so take note of that. So many times we hear and read about what all is left out of these movies, misinterpreted, or how they may be too contemporary, too traditional, too intense, too exaggerated, too Baptist, too Methodist, too Catholic, too religious etc. As a believer and a struggling at times but growing disciple of Jesus Christ let me just say to you don't be caught up in what the movie doesn't say or do. The very purpose of why Christ came to this world being born to die for our transgressions is indeed a part of this movie. The price was paid in His sacrifice so that we may have eternal life with Him. The fact that He was and is the I AM is stated. He shows his compassion and quiet confidence at times on the screen. And yes if you are not moved by the scenes at the cross then you probably don't get it and more or less this blog will not speak to you. Now sure we can go and pull out all of our complaints and point out whats missing from this film as most are doing. But in a way it's ironic how much like being in a church in today's culture, we only pull out what we want to hear and see done. We tend to take what benefits us and maybe tears down others and mix it into some kind of legalistic mojo we wear on our sleeves. A sad analogy is the fact that we as men struggle to listen in life especially if we are married. I hear my wife alot and many times very clear but I don't listen to what she is saying when in fact she is sharing something way awesome to hear. I challenge you to watch the movie and then come away wanting to dig deeper for yourself. The fact that there are some specifics that are indeed left out should make you want to do this. Go in all the Gospels and read with your own eyes the beautiful masterpiece that is painted. All answers are there. If you're not careful you may come away with more than you started with as far as your faith goes. I'm glad that we get this movie however in some ways a short version to view as an offering and testimony to what He, Jesus, himself did for us. And to celebrate not only what He has done in the past but what He is doing now in our every day lives. Or even what He can do for us. For you.
Yes I know there may never be a perfect film or series documenting the Gospels. But see if I'm depending solely on what I see to believe or what somebody else tells me then my faith is weak. Faith is shared in the bible being defined in Hebrews chapter 11 by not only a definition but examples spread throughout God's Word. Faith is love in action as well. My faith is challenged to go deeper and hold tighter even if I can't see whats ahead of me. I trust in His will and His Word alone. I am thankful that I am not dependent on a movie or another book to show me the whole story. From an early age until now I am holding on to the truth that I as you can be or you have been saved by grace through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. So go see the movie and then go back as I did and rediscover the whole story. His story. What He said and What He did.
So maybe as you go to watch the movie for whatever reason that may be, while eating that bucket of popcorn there may be a moment that causes you to reflect or even celebrate who Jesus is to you.
Now let me be very clear that if you are going to this movie to see all of the context as recorded as it happened word for word via the Holy Bible I regret to inform you that you will not see a lot of what was recorded. The movie itself runs at 150 minutes and is more or less a capsule summary of events in Jesus life. And you are not getting all of the Gospels in chronological order either so take note of that. So many times we hear and read about what all is left out of these movies, misinterpreted, or how they may be too contemporary, too traditional, too intense, too exaggerated, too Baptist, too Methodist, too Catholic, too religious etc. As a believer and a struggling at times but growing disciple of Jesus Christ let me just say to you don't be caught up in what the movie doesn't say or do. The very purpose of why Christ came to this world being born to die for our transgressions is indeed a part of this movie. The price was paid in His sacrifice so that we may have eternal life with Him. The fact that He was and is the I AM is stated. He shows his compassion and quiet confidence at times on the screen. And yes if you are not moved by the scenes at the cross then you probably don't get it and more or less this blog will not speak to you. Now sure we can go and pull out all of our complaints and point out whats missing from this film as most are doing. But in a way it's ironic how much like being in a church in today's culture, we only pull out what we want to hear and see done. We tend to take what benefits us and maybe tears down others and mix it into some kind of legalistic mojo we wear on our sleeves. A sad analogy is the fact that we as men struggle to listen in life especially if we are married. I hear my wife alot and many times very clear but I don't listen to what she is saying when in fact she is sharing something way awesome to hear. I challenge you to watch the movie and then come away wanting to dig deeper for yourself. The fact that there are some specifics that are indeed left out should make you want to do this. Go in all the Gospels and read with your own eyes the beautiful masterpiece that is painted. All answers are there. If you're not careful you may come away with more than you started with as far as your faith goes. I'm glad that we get this movie however in some ways a short version to view as an offering and testimony to what He, Jesus, himself did for us. And to celebrate not only what He has done in the past but what He is doing now in our every day lives. Or even what He can do for us. For you.
Yes I know there may never be a perfect film or series documenting the Gospels. But see if I'm depending solely on what I see to believe or what somebody else tells me then my faith is weak. Faith is shared in the bible being defined in Hebrews chapter 11 by not only a definition but examples spread throughout God's Word. Faith is love in action as well. My faith is challenged to go deeper and hold tighter even if I can't see whats ahead of me. I trust in His will and His Word alone. I am thankful that I am not dependent on a movie or another book to show me the whole story. From an early age until now I am holding on to the truth that I as you can be or you have been saved by grace through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. So go see the movie and then go back as I did and rediscover the whole story. His story. What He said and What He did.
So maybe as you go to watch the movie for whatever reason that may be, while eating that bucket of popcorn there may be a moment that causes you to reflect or even celebrate who Jesus is to you.
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Snow, Earthquakes, Birthday fun, and Ric Flair
Well it's been over a week since my last post so this whole blogging experiment has started slowly but hey it's a new week and I have some time to share some thoughts. Again when I started this I had various ideas of what all I wanted to share. I obviously wanted to share about my faith and the applications that I feel others can gain from that faith. I also wanted to share personal stories as well as just random topics of daily interest whether it be current events or other subjects. I just wanted to treat it like a buffet not knowing what all you will get but knowing it will be something either insightful and/or entertaining. So hopefully I can get a few out this week. Today's will be one of those random posts so here we go.
We just came off of Valentine's Day and here in SC what we now refer as Winter Blast 2014. Over 6 inches of snow and ice added together causing for a whole week shutdown. And with that came some fun playing with my kids as well as by the end of the week having cabin fever. It was great to be together but we all needed some alone time by that Friday. And that day being Valentine's Day was great because I was able to take my wife out to eat and have some kid free time. But the exclamation point came in the form of an earthquake about 50 miles or so from where I live. The aftershock was felt that Friday night and sent a social media shock wave off in our area. The news outlets were quick to hit the air and let's just say that the initial interviews were of high entertainment value among the local residents.
My daughter Caitlin celebrated her 6th birthday this past weekend. Seriously time has to slow down a bit. This kid is growing more and more every day. She is too smart for her own good at times but such a blessing. We have a great bond that has grown. We are just a like which causes conflict at times but also is refreshing because I can see so much of me in her. Her birthday fell on Wednesday this year and she was able to be around my youth group that night. They sang Happy Birthday to her as well sang one of her favorite songs Washed By The Water with her. She also had a Frozen themed party at home during the weekend. So it was a great week for her and I think she was overly satisfied.
We just came off of Valentine's Day and here in SC what we now refer as Winter Blast 2014. Over 6 inches of snow and ice added together causing for a whole week shutdown. And with that came some fun playing with my kids as well as by the end of the week having cabin fever. It was great to be together but we all needed some alone time by that Friday. And that day being Valentine's Day was great because I was able to take my wife out to eat and have some kid free time. But the exclamation point came in the form of an earthquake about 50 miles or so from where I live. The aftershock was felt that Friday night and sent a social media shock wave off in our area. The news outlets were quick to hit the air and let's just say that the initial interviews were of high entertainment value among the local residents.My daughter Caitlin celebrated her 6th birthday this past weekend. Seriously time has to slow down a bit. This kid is growing more and more every day. She is too smart for her own good at times but such a blessing. We have a great bond that has grown. We are just a like which causes conflict at times but also is refreshing because I can see so much of me in her. Her birthday fell on Wednesday this year and she was able to be around my youth group that night. They sang Happy Birthday to her as well sang one of her favorite songs Washed By The Water with her. She also had a Frozen themed party at home during the weekend. So it was a great week for her and I think she was overly satisfied.
Later this week I am looking forward to seeing the Nature Boy Ric Flair in Spartanburg, SC. He will be appearing for an autograph and photo session. Not gonna go into a big spill now but maybe for one of next week's blogs but I am jacked up for this. I have been a long time wrestling fan as well as a Flair fan. Have had the chance to see him wrestle live in his prime and appear in his latter years. This will definitely be a bucket list moment for me so I hope to not be too goofy and make the most of it. Should be fun.
How bout some free entertainment? To show you how crazy the Collins clan can get I thought it would be cool to post one of our music videos that was a blast to do. A different version of the song Whole New World from Aladdin. Stellar Kart is the band that provided the remake and it's a lot of fun. Notice the Jasmine doll held by Caitlin during the song as well as my son Chase's Nascar like dance moves. Enjoy.
Gonna leave this for now with the hopes of some more blogs this week. But had to get back on track and caught up to speed. Hope everyone has a blessed day and makes the most out of their time today.
Monday, February 10, 2014
Flappy Faith
Remember a little game called Angry Birds? Yeah that multi-million dollar sensation that dominated phones and computers alike. Remember when that was the rage? Well the last month has seen a new "bird" sensation take over and it's called Flappy Bird. Have you seen this and played it yet? Better yet have you slipped and said a few bad words while playing it or even threw your phone across the room? The game in itself doesn't wow you with it's state of the art graphics. Matter of fact hardcore video game fans have voiced their displeasure with the use of some familiar green tunnels that are similar to the 1980s classic Super Mario Brothers.
Well the goal of the game is to direct this flappy bird in between a maze of small open spaces with a tunnel at the top and bottom of the screen. Just see my picture below if I'm confusing you. Well every time you succeed you get a point but if you touch the tunnels the game is over. Slight of hand and a steady eye can lead to success. But overall it has been a celebrated struggle by many of the users. It has led many like any arcade game to the repeated investment of hours to conquer new highs in this game.
Just this past weekend the creator Doug Nguyen announced that the app for his game would be dropped from all available app sites due to what he references an overwhelming demand on him. The game has been in high demand and has averaged $50,000 daily since it's take off. Not sure if it will be sold or brought back but it has been a phenom here in early 2014. And leads me to think about the following.
As crazy as it may seem there's a lot we can relate this game to when regards to our faith. Specifically our faith in Jesus Christ. Faith is defined in the scripture within the book of Hebrews chapter 11. Starting with verse 1 it says "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." The chapter itself has been dubbed the "faith hall of fame" chapter.
Following verse one are 39 verses that highlight various accounts of faith and it's effects displayed by those referenced in the Bible. Small, big and in between are covered and all with the knowledge that faith is sure and certain. It starts with believing in who God says He is and it book ends with believing in His promises meaning He will do what He says. If we trust and believe that He will fulfill these promises there lies the foundation to true faith.
Jesus himself answered his disciples by telling them in Matthew 17:20 the power of true faith:
"Because you have so little faith. I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you."
As a youth minister I see and hear many stories of faith struggles. Struggles to trust and be confident as a disciple of Christ. Trusting that taking a stand for Him can elevate your faith not crush it. Whether it's teens or adults even we all struggle with our faith foundation. Now flying a bird in between tunnels has been a frustration for many not because it can't be done but whether it be a lack of patience or an easiness to be frustrated the game itself has struck a nerve. I try to encourage my youth and others that our faith in Christ should be firm and secure with no doubt and no regrets. If he asks us to do something or an opportunity comes to share something we should answer to the call in faith. When He called me into Student Ministry I responded in faith having no idea what was ahead but knew He was in control. When I asked my wife to marry me I trusted in the fact she would say yes and it was God's will. So much I proposed in front of 3,000 people at a high school football game. And I could go on with other examples.
We tend to view faith like a honor system with God. Hey if I do and say for you then you can pay me back right? There is reward by trusting and holding a faith in Christ even in the most difficult times. But you see we grow as a people with limited patience. It has to be now or never. The time needed for growth and discipline is not desired yet we lash out at the lack of fulfillment due to having faith. In that chapter of Hebrews verse 6 hits it real clear the following:
Now you may not be a believer but still you put faith in someone or something. You probably count it as a reward when something works for your good and also count it as a loss when otherwise working against you. But when have you searched His will for your life out to the point of pure relentless trust. And how many times have we dismissed true blessings as a coincidence or luk of the draw.
I would encourage you to read this Hebrews chapter and then reference the stories mentioned. Let it challenge and encourage you as it does me in my walk. Maybe it's time to let go of a Flappy Faith. Maybe it's time for a new game plan. Maybe you need to put your trust in the unknown rather than what you choose to see daily. Frustration aside it's a better payoff and just like that bird you can fly again.
Well the goal of the game is to direct this flappy bird in between a maze of small open spaces with a tunnel at the top and bottom of the screen. Just see my picture below if I'm confusing you. Well every time you succeed you get a point but if you touch the tunnels the game is over. Slight of hand and a steady eye can lead to success. But overall it has been a celebrated struggle by many of the users. It has led many like any arcade game to the repeated investment of hours to conquer new highs in this game.
Just this past weekend the creator Doug Nguyen announced that the app for his game would be dropped from all available app sites due to what he references an overwhelming demand on him. The game has been in high demand and has averaged $50,000 daily since it's take off. Not sure if it will be sold or brought back but it has been a phenom here in early 2014. And leads me to think about the following.
As crazy as it may seem there's a lot we can relate this game to when regards to our faith. Specifically our faith in Jesus Christ. Faith is defined in the scripture within the book of Hebrews chapter 11. Starting with verse 1 it says "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." The chapter itself has been dubbed the "faith hall of fame" chapter.
Following verse one are 39 verses that highlight various accounts of faith and it's effects displayed by those referenced in the Bible. Small, big and in between are covered and all with the knowledge that faith is sure and certain. It starts with believing in who God says He is and it book ends with believing in His promises meaning He will do what He says. If we trust and believe that He will fulfill these promises there lies the foundation to true faith.
Jesus himself answered his disciples by telling them in Matthew 17:20 the power of true faith:
"Because you have so little faith. I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you."
As a youth minister I see and hear many stories of faith struggles. Struggles to trust and be confident as a disciple of Christ. Trusting that taking a stand for Him can elevate your faith not crush it. Whether it's teens or adults even we all struggle with our faith foundation. Now flying a bird in between tunnels has been a frustration for many not because it can't be done but whether it be a lack of patience or an easiness to be frustrated the game itself has struck a nerve. I try to encourage my youth and others that our faith in Christ should be firm and secure with no doubt and no regrets. If he asks us to do something or an opportunity comes to share something we should answer to the call in faith. When He called me into Student Ministry I responded in faith having no idea what was ahead but knew He was in control. When I asked my wife to marry me I trusted in the fact she would say yes and it was God's will. So much I proposed in front of 3,000 people at a high school football game. And I could go on with other examples.
We tend to view faith like a honor system with God. Hey if I do and say for you then you can pay me back right? There is reward by trusting and holding a faith in Christ even in the most difficult times. But you see we grow as a people with limited patience. It has to be now or never. The time needed for growth and discipline is not desired yet we lash out at the lack of fulfillment due to having faith. In that chapter of Hebrews verse 6 hits it real clear the following:
Now you may not be a believer but still you put faith in someone or something. You probably count it as a reward when something works for your good and also count it as a loss when otherwise working against you. But when have you searched His will for your life out to the point of pure relentless trust. And how many times have we dismissed true blessings as a coincidence or luk of the draw.
I would encourage you to read this Hebrews chapter and then reference the stories mentioned. Let it challenge and encourage you as it does me in my walk. Maybe it's time to let go of a Flappy Faith. Maybe it's time for a new game plan. Maybe you need to put your trust in the unknown rather than what you choose to see daily. Frustration aside it's a better payoff and just like that bird you can fly again.
Monday, February 3, 2014
The First One
Hello and Good Monday to you. This is a blog attempt by yours truly and I ask forgiveness for not having a better greeting but here we go anyways so bear with me. So I just decided to try this as a way if any to share my random thoughts, stories, revelations, wit, limited wisdom, and maybe some blessing to you the reader. That's a lot to uphold but I'm gonna try.
I'm sure if anyone reads this and does not know me they are now waiting on a detailed biography. Well that will come later with stories and other things. I really just thought this first blog would be totally random. However I will just let the record show that I am a disciple of Jesus Christ, husband, father, and a youth minister daily. Now if we don't know each other and that one little phrase frightens you or forces an unwarranted dismissal I simply ask to give me a chance to share who I am before you make an opinion. Now on to my thoughts for the day.
Was there a football game on last night? The Super Bowl was on last night? Wow. Talk about a massive unexpected result of disappointment in the game itself. Now mind you I am speaking to it not being more competitive but not to diminish the two teams and their paths to get there. First off I'm an Atlanta Falcons fan (for the record) so I had no dog in the hunt. As a kid I liked watching John Elway and the Broncos. I have a lot of respect and admiration for Peyton Manning even though the praise he gained this weekend was quickly turned to criticism as we often do in life. He's a great QB and will be a hall of fame inductee when the time is due. He just ran into a buzz saw defense from the Seattle Seahawks, the youngest team in the NFL who played with hunger and spirit from start to finish. The best TEAM won the game as to say that perhaps the best player on the field didn't win. Russel Wilson is a solid pro QB and I have a ton of respect for him as a fellow believer in Christ using his platform. This could be argued as one of the most if not most impressive defensive performances by any team in a Super Bowl. The end result is pretty convincing.
As always the main hype for a Super Bowl is geared towards the commercials. And while overall I would say the entertainment value this year was not as good there was one that really got me fired up. Radio Shack with their ad featured several iconic celebrities from the 80s entering their store wanting to "take back their Radio Shack" and forcing you to watch the replay to see who all was in the commercial. From Hulk Hogan to Mary Lou Retton to Alf to Qbert to Ponch from the TV show Chips this was a trip for a guy who loves any and all things from the 80s. May have not been the overall winner but definitely was great seeing these icons for a one minute shout out to nostalgia.
I just recently took my family to Walt Disney World and had one of the best weeks ever. My wife Crystal and I who just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary took our two children Caitlin who is 5 and Chase who is 3. My oldest niece Molly also went to help out with the kids and as a whole we just had some great memories. There is nothing like seeing things via the outlook of kids and this trip was no disappointment. Now I am the biggest kid you will meet and was just as jacked about Mickey as they were but seeing them react and just light up was the biggest blessing overall. The moment I remember most was during the fireworks show at the Magic Kingdom. Nothing beats watching a fireworks show at the Magic Kingdom. That night as I watched my kids enjoy those fireworks especially the look in Caitlin's eyes, it was one of those great moments as a Daddy I will never forget. I had fun mind you but that was amazing. Thankful and blessed to have that and all the moments shared as a simple reminder that every moment spent with our children is precious and borrowed time.
Well being the first blog I have no idea how to end it. This has not been a central themed effort but just something to get started with. So I will leave you with a quote and some scripture maybe to help with your day. Thanks for reading and please help share with others. The best is yet to come.
Lee
""When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us."
"Now then, my sons, listen to me; blessed are those who keep my ways. Listen to my instruction and be wise; do not ignore it. Blessed is the man who listens to me, watching daily at my doors, waiting at my doorway. For whoever finds me finds life and receives favor from the LORD. But whoever fails to find me harms himself; all who hate me love death."
-Proverbs 8:32-36
I'm sure if anyone reads this and does not know me they are now waiting on a detailed biography. Well that will come later with stories and other things. I really just thought this first blog would be totally random. However I will just let the record show that I am a disciple of Jesus Christ, husband, father, and a youth minister daily. Now if we don't know each other and that one little phrase frightens you or forces an unwarranted dismissal I simply ask to give me a chance to share who I am before you make an opinion. Now on to my thoughts for the day.
Was there a football game on last night? The Super Bowl was on last night? Wow. Talk about a massive unexpected result of disappointment in the game itself. Now mind you I am speaking to it not being more competitive but not to diminish the two teams and their paths to get there. First off I'm an Atlanta Falcons fan (for the record) so I had no dog in the hunt. As a kid I liked watching John Elway and the Broncos. I have a lot of respect and admiration for Peyton Manning even though the praise he gained this weekend was quickly turned to criticism as we often do in life. He's a great QB and will be a hall of fame inductee when the time is due. He just ran into a buzz saw defense from the Seattle Seahawks, the youngest team in the NFL who played with hunger and spirit from start to finish. The best TEAM won the game as to say that perhaps the best player on the field didn't win. Russel Wilson is a solid pro QB and I have a ton of respect for him as a fellow believer in Christ using his platform. This could be argued as one of the most if not most impressive defensive performances by any team in a Super Bowl. The end result is pretty convincing.
As always the main hype for a Super Bowl is geared towards the commercials. And while overall I would say the entertainment value this year was not as good there was one that really got me fired up. Radio Shack with their ad featured several iconic celebrities from the 80s entering their store wanting to "take back their Radio Shack" and forcing you to watch the replay to see who all was in the commercial. From Hulk Hogan to Mary Lou Retton to Alf to Qbert to Ponch from the TV show Chips this was a trip for a guy who loves any and all things from the 80s. May have not been the overall winner but definitely was great seeing these icons for a one minute shout out to nostalgia.
I just recently took my family to Walt Disney World and had one of the best weeks ever. My wife Crystal and I who just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary took our two children Caitlin who is 5 and Chase who is 3. My oldest niece Molly also went to help out with the kids and as a whole we just had some great memories. There is nothing like seeing things via the outlook of kids and this trip was no disappointment. Now I am the biggest kid you will meet and was just as jacked about Mickey as they were but seeing them react and just light up was the biggest blessing overall. The moment I remember most was during the fireworks show at the Magic Kingdom. Nothing beats watching a fireworks show at the Magic Kingdom. That night as I watched my kids enjoy those fireworks especially the look in Caitlin's eyes, it was one of those great moments as a Daddy I will never forget. I had fun mind you but that was amazing. Thankful and blessed to have that and all the moments shared as a simple reminder that every moment spent with our children is precious and borrowed time.
I am a youth minister as mentioned earlier and I definitely have a passion for young people and their growth in the Lord. This week is a full week for us filled with lots of great uplifting music. We will be seeing the band Rend Collective on Wednesday followed by the annual Winter Jam concert in Greenville, SC featuring a full slate of artists. I love music. With what we or many label Christian music there is much variety which is a good thing since I like variety in styles. Just as in any music I can start out the day listening to the Beach Boys, mix in some Alabama, and end with Lionel Richie. I have an extensive library you would say. But I love gospel music and I love music that encourages, challenges, and demands my growth as a Christian while also giving thanks and praise for what He has done in my life. So I'm looking forward to this week of music. Did I mention I play bass in our church praise band? Yes music is awesome. As is serving and ministering to a great youth group. I have been blessed to serve them and we have some awesome fellowships.
Well being the first blog I have no idea how to end it. This has not been a central themed effort but just something to get started with. So I will leave you with a quote and some scripture maybe to help with your day. Thanks for reading and please help share with others. The best is yet to come.
Lee
""When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us."
"Now then, my sons, listen to me; blessed are those who keep my ways. Listen to my instruction and be wise; do not ignore it. Blessed is the man who listens to me, watching daily at my doors, waiting at my doorway. For whoever finds me finds life and receives favor from the LORD. But whoever fails to find me harms himself; all who hate me love death."
-Proverbs 8:32-36
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